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Vancouver resident Lori
Sgarbossa says she was
hardly doing handsprings
when she signed on for a
Caribbean singles cruise
in 2005, but she was
ready to take a chance -
or at least have a good
laugh. "I thought I'd be
on a boat with a bunch
of losers," she admits
now.
But
between the cabin
crawls, cocktail
parties, salsa lessons,
rock climbing and
mingling with other
travellers who, like
her, were busy
professionals looking
for friends and fun,
Sgarbossa realized she
was having a blast.
Not
only that, she bumped
into Jim Robertson, a
fellow Canadian and
singles cruiser. She
married him last March.
"People always ask us
how we met, and we say,
'The old-fashioned way:
on a singles cruise,' "
Sgarbossa jokes.
Of
course, cruises such as
those offered by
SinglesCruise.com aren't
the only way to travel
solo, especially if your
idea of a good time
leans more toward hiking
in Peru or cycling
through Tuscany. In
fact, a growing number
of companies are itching
to accommodate solo
travel by making it
easier and cheaper.
According to a recent
Travel Industry
Association of America
survey, 11 per cent of
all American leisure
travellers are leaving
friends and family
behind when they hit the
open road. Meanwhile, 27
per cent of the AAA/CAA
club's U.S. and Canadian
travel counsellors say
they are seeing an
increase in the number
of trips for single
travellers.
While
some vacationers are
hooking up with
companies such as
Contiki Holidays or All
Singles Travel looking
for romance, there are a
myriad of reasons to
pack a one-man tent.
Maybe you want to
backpack along
Yellowstone trails, but
your spouse is more of
an all-inclusive-resort
kind of gal. Or perhaps
it's tough to find
friends to get away with
at the same time.
But
the world doesn't seem
built for solo
travellers.
"Singles get a little
bit tired of going on a
trip and finding out
they're travelling with
a whole bunch of
couples," says Jacquie
Burnside, vice-president
of sales and marketing
for Intrepid Travel in
Los Angeles, an
adventure travel company
that plans to launch its
own solo packages next
spring.
Then there are the
financial penalties for
travelling without a
partner: Think "prices
based on double
occupancy." Travel
companies know that
single rooms lose them
money, so solo
travellers must cough up
a "single supplement."
For example, guests who
want a stateroom to
themselves on a Royal
Caribbean cruise ship
must pay 200 per cent of
the category rate,
according to the
company's website. In
other words, they're
forced to pay for a
person who does not
exist.
Fortunately,
single-friendly travel
companies such as Cruise
West offer "single
share" cabins so
cruisers can avoid the
markup. If the company
is unable to find
someone to share a
stateroom with you, you
get to travel alone for
the same price you would
pay if you were half of
a couple. Meanwhile,
Crystal Cruises offers
select sailings for
single travellers with a
low 25-per-cent
supplement, while Cunard
Line, Orient Line and
Cruise West have a small
number of cabins
designated for single
travellers - but at an
additional charge.
Resorts, hotels, tour
companies and travel
clubs are also getting
into the single-travel
market, offering their
own incentives.
All Singles Travel
and Singles Travel
International run
cruises, escorted tours
and outdoorsy vacations
geared toward solo
travellers, while G.A.P
Adventures boasts a
no-single-supplement
policy (they pair
same-sex travellers
together in rooms). Many
Club Med resorts offer
single-supplement
savings of 30 to 100 per
cent, depending on the
resort and the time of
year. Then there is Go
Ireland Activity
Holidays. The tour
company recently
introduced solo dates on
its most popular walking
tour with one bonus: The
first six people to book
get a room to themselves
without paying a
supplement. The rest are
paired off.
Even high-end hotels
such as the Fairmont
Miramar Hotel in Santa
Monica, Calif., are
developing packages to
lure single guests. It
recently launched its
"Single & the City" room
package, which includes
accommodations,
breakfast - which can be
eaten at the more casual
Koi Pond for those
uncomfortable with the
idea of tucking into
their croissant and
coffee in the formal
dining room - and a kit
with a map and
information on
solo-friendly
destinations, starting
from $400.
Meanwhile, the Westin
St. John Resort and
Villas of the U.S.
Virgin Islands has a
"Solo-cation for Her"
package that begins at
$8,063 for three nights
and includes the use of
a private cabana
complete with a plasma
TV, iPod docking
stations, a butler and
Evian spritzing water.
After a morning of
pedicures and cocktails,
guests can tour the
island in a private jeep
with a "non-chatty
driver," the resort
promises.
Still, the
opportunity to travel
solo, whether it's
roughing it in
Australia's Outback or
spritzing it up in the
Caribbean, is one thing;
getting over the fear of
spending days or weeks
all alone is quite
another.
Beth Whitman, author
of Wanderlust and
Lipstick: The Essential
Guide for Women
Traveling Solo,
conquered her fears when
she hopped on a BMW
motorcycle 10 years ago
and rode from Seattle,
Wash., to Panama and
back, an
11,265-kilometre
journey.
"People told me I was
going to die, get raped
or that my motorcycle
would get stolen. None
of that happened," she
says.
Sure, the odds that
something will go
terribly wrong are slim,
but it's always a good
idea to keep safety in
mind. Whitman says
meeting up with other
travellers makes sense
if you want to visit an
area that is
intimidating. Internet
cafés are a good place
to meet. So are hostels.
And keep a rubber
doorstop with you, she
recommends. Slip it
under the door when
you're in the shower or
before you go to bed so
no one - not even
someone with a key - can
gain access to your
room.
Or travel with a tour
group. Most tours have
at least two guides who
know the lay of the
land, which tourist
areas to hit and which
are best avoided.
Besides, there's safety
in numbers.
Kate Moeller,
public-relations manager
for Club Med and an avid
traveller, remembers
wanting to go to Morocco
after university but
being unable to find
anyone to go with. Too
frightened to visit the
country by herself, she
gave up on the idea. It
wasn't until she started
working for Club Med and
visited its Morocco
property that she ever
saw the place.
"If you want to go to
a country that you find
a little bit
intimidating, staying at
a secure resort [and
going out on day trips]
is a really good
option," she says.
But how about
loneliness? Travel solo
and you're only as alone
as you want to be, say
most experienced single
travellers.
"Your mindset is
different and you're
much more approachable,"
Moeller says.
And if you're still
afraid to head out on
your own for two weeks
in Tibet, start small
instead. Do a couple of
weekend trips. Or, for
those who can't imagine
being alone for even
that amount of time, go
to a movie unaccompanied
or out to dinner. "Even
that is hard for some
people," Whitman says.
Making the effort is
worth it, though.
Travelling solo has
overwhelming benefits.
"You can come and go as
you please," Whitman
says. "You can eat when
you want - or miss the
bus if you want to hang
out."
Besides, the stigma
of single travel is
slowly ebbing away, says
Travis Hartley, chief
executive officer and
founder of Meet Market
Adventures in Toronto.
Seven years ago, he
launched the business,
offering a new,
adventurous take on
dating clubs. Singles
sign up to go skydiving,
rock climbing or
whitewater rafting
together.
"When I started the
company, my biggest
challenge was to
convince people that it
was okay to be single
and travel. Back then,
there were just divorcée
dances and dating
services," he says.
But within a few
years, as sites such as
Lavalife and Match.com
gained respectability,
Meet Market, which now
has offices all over
Canada and the United
States, branched out to
offer vacations and
cruises. This summer,
singles from around the
world signed up for
tours such as
"Highlights of Sri Lanka
and Kandy Perahera" or
the "Singles Dude Ranch
Experience."
And despite slogging
with strangers, there's
no awkward small talk.
It's not exactly
difficult to find
something to chat about
when you're sharing a
Yangtze River cruise
with 11 other
like-minded people.
And even if a single
traveller doesn't find
the love of her life
while taking to the open
road - or water, like
Sgarbossa - solo trips
often lead to lifelong
pals.
"The first night,
everyone's a stranger,"
says Vickie Meeuwsen,
public-relations rep for
SinglesCruise.com. "By
the end of the week,
everyone is hugging and
crying. They're just
best friends."
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